Fetichism, other ways to reach orgasm

Fetichism, another way to achieve orgasm

Have you ever wondered what causes an orgasm? In general, we speak about the G spot or having a good knowledge of one’s body in the case of women; and about a long excitation and a large number of strategies in the case of men. But things are not as simple as they seem. There may be something – either an object or a part of your body that really awakes your sexual desire. If, for example, you need to look into the eyes of your sexual partner or wear special clothing or garments to achieve an orgasm, you are a fetishist.

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You can not remove your eyes from her hips, the movements of her ankle hypnotize you, you like her hands, the smell of his clothes, the gesture he makes when he smokes a cigarette…fortunately, sexual arousal has many origins. But in fetishism, if the person does not have that particular object or does not see that thing that he or she likes so much to reach an orgasm, this can be a nuisance. The characteristic of a fetishist is that the excitement that comes from the outer element exceeds that generated by the couple.

If you need to wear, smell, or touch your partner’s clothes, see a certain colour or listen to certain music, you may be a fetishist… It is a paraphilia, a sexual behaviour where the predominant source is not the other person or the sexual relationship, but an outside activity. It has nothing to do with sexual toys, since a fetishist will feel really frustrated without his fetish. If there are no boots, no used panties or no feet, there is no orgasm!

The origin of this behaviour would be found in childhood and in the early sexual experiences. For example, if the fetishist began his sexual life playing with small breasts, this could quite easily become an obsession: from then, only touching small breasts, he will reach the orgasm. It is not considered a disorder if it occurs in a short period of time – about six months and it has no impact on ones private life. It may even be something good in your relationship, if you feel a special admiration for an object or part of your body, and you share it with your partner.

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